Sunday, December 30, 2018

Christmas Is Waiting to be Born by Howard Thurman

Where refugees seek deliverance that never comes
And the heart consumes itself as if it would live,
Where children age before their time
And life wears down the edges of the mind,
Where the old man sits with mind grown cold,
While bones and sinew, blood and cell, go slowly down to death,
Where fear companions each day’s life,
And Perfect Love seems long delayed.
CHRISTMAS IS WAITING TO BE BORN:
In you, in me, in all humankind.

Despite all the darkness in our world, the light of God’s presence is made known and Christmas is being born and coming to life in very real and significant ways.
Today is the Feast of the Holy Family. In today’s second reading from the 1stletter of John we hear: Beloved: See what love the Father has bestowed on us that we may be called the children of God. And so we are.

And so we are…It seems at every corner, God’s light shines forth in the form of an angel. A few days ago I had to get a father and his young daughter who are from Guatemala to the airport early; their family in Massachusetts had bought them a plane ticket. Because I had to get back to take other people to the bus station I wasn't able to take them through to their gate. So God sent a beautiful man whose name was Arturo.He was accompanying another refugee family and he offered to take my family through to their gate.

Each family comes with such anticipation and fear so having someone there to help accompany them on their first flight or to the bus station gives a sense of peace which is often not available to them.  When I transport someone I give them one of our SSJ prayer Cards and tell them, “I will be praying for you for a safe trip with a warm welcome to you new home and may God bless you every day.”

Earlier this week I took a family to the Greyhound station. There I encountered Mike & Hector who had set a up a stand t o give migrants warm tamales, bottled water, granola bars, fruit and a blanket for their travels. Mike runs the nearby Rock Café & Gallery; another angel responding to the refugees needs.

Mike & Hector at the Greyhound Station

On Friday we only had cold 2 day old pizza and peanut butter & jelly sandwiches to serve the refugees for lunch. When I had gotten home I told about this experience to the Sisters of Charity I am staying with. In a heart beat they went to work to make homemade beans in 4 crock pots and a large pot of rice; they even went out to buy freshly made tortillas. They wanted us to be able to offer the refugees a warm, and familiar meal. Everyone was so happy and ate as if it was their first meal in heaven!

Beans & rice ready to go...

Yesterday a young mom and her family arrived just before noon with food to serve about 150 people. We had already received food for lunch so I was going to direct her to another shelter site. Then suddenly I looked up from talking with her and realized that about 60 refugees had silently entered the hotel. The usual time of refugees coming was usually around 4pm but with Homeland Security Secretary Kirstjen Nielsen was coming to see the detention centers and it was suspected that I.C.E. was trying to empty them before her arrival, hence he early arrival. I immediately told the Mom, Erin and husband Dan, “God sent you right now to feed all these people because we would not had food enough for them and the refugees we already had.” 

Erin, Ray, Catherine & Dan

I welcomed them, told them to sit down and that they would be receiving a wonderful meal, at which they began to clap! I found out that they were each given a cold burrito twice a day and that they had not eaten anything yet that day. Many of the refugees gave me their I.C.E. issued blankets which looks like aluminum foil, only it doesn’t tear, and they would cover themselves, including the children, while sleeping on the floors of the detention center which are very cold.

Yesterday one of the families had to be taken to the airport at night for an early morning flight. Due to some ticketing issues they weren’t able to board and ended up spending the night and morning in the airport. We received word of their plight and went to pick them up at the airport to bring them back to the hotel The Mom decided to stay at the airport for another night because luckily they were able to get a new ticket for an early flight tomorrow. Meanwhile… a passenger had noticed their situation and had brought them breakfast and another passenger later in the day saw them and bought them lunch and then went on to remove her coat, gloves and socks to give to the mother! What angels!

One last story of God’s angels bringing Christmas to birth… Today’s lunch of Popeye’s chicken, rice & beans came to us compliments of the wives of the Stanford football coaches who will be playing in the Sun Bowl here in El Paso on New Year’s day. The coaches were at practice but the wives and children came with the food and rolled up sleeves to serve our guests. Before leaving some of the women what else we might need… “underwear, socks, hate & gloves”, I said. Within an hour they were back with bags of these items.

Wives of the Stanford coaches with Srs. Cecelia & Andrea

Christmas was born in so many little mangers these last days dispelling the gloom and darkness that can so overwhelm us. We must keep our eyes and hearts open to see these little births and to meet the angels God is sending us everyday, even in the families of the  Stanford coaching staff. Go Cardinals!


Tuesday, December 25, 2018


A Latin American Christmas Creed 


I believe in Jesus Christ and in the power of the gospel,
begun in Bethlehem.
I believe in the one whose spirit glorified a small village,
of whose coming shepherds saw the sign,
and for whom there was no room at the inn.
I believe in the one whose life changed the course of history,
over whom the rulers of the earth had no power,
and who was not understood by the proud.
I believe in the one to whom the oppressed, the discouraged,
the afflicted, the sick, the blind, the injured gave welcome,
and accept as Lord and Savior.
I believe in the one who ... with love ... changed the heart
of the proud and with his life
showed that it is better to serve than to be served,
and that the greatest joy is giving your life for others.
I believe in peace, which is not the absence of war,
but justice among all people and nations and love among all.
I believe in reconciliation, forgiveness,
and the transforming power of the gospel.
I believe that Christmas is strength and power,
and that this world can change if with humility
and faith we kneel before the manger.
I believe that I must be the first one to do so.
 (Taken from Alternative for Simple Living's Whose Birthday Is It Anyway?)

I believe in Jesus Christ and in the power of the gospel, begun in Bethlehem and continued throughout the globe, including here in El Paso!

Yesterday folks brought wrapped Christmas gifts so parents could give each of their children a gift. I had heard all about the excitement especially from the children when I 
arrived this morning.

There were no refugees released last night or today by I.C.E. because of Christmas. So, we only had 27 refugees at the Hotel Soluna which made for a quieter day. We had a peaceful joy throughout the day with a sense of community. A group of folks brought lunch: ham and cheese sandwiches, macaroni salad and fruit salad.


A few soccer balls came with the gifts last night so some kids spent time playing soccer in the parking lot. Sr. Cecelia Hudec SC from Vancouver BC, my work partner, and I had bought coloring books, crayons, checkers, bubbles, puzzles and a U.S. map . So other kids played with these items or stared at the map trying to understand where they were and where they were going.
Cecelia making peanut butter & jelly sandwiches for folks travelling on the bus.

I am an amateur "barber" so I brought my hair cutting gear. When I asked who wanted a haircut, one of the guys came forward to say he was a barber and that he would be happy to cut hair. Go for it! I said. What delight I experienced watching him offer his gift to the community; plus he probably did a better job than I would. 


All in all it was a beautiful Christmas day. I came home to my
Charity Sisters and a delicious ham dinner with all the fixins! All I can do is live with a full and grateful heart. Gracias a Dios!
Sisters of Charity community
I believe in the one who ... with love ... changed the heart
of the proud and with his life showed that it is better to serve than
to be served...

Monday, December 24, 2018




CNN-Immigration and Customs Enforcement officers dropped off more than 200 undocumented immigrants outside a Greyhound bus terminal in El Paso, Texas, on Sunday night without an apparent plan for housing them. The waiting area at the bus terminal is small, Police Sgt. Gomez said, and many people were left standing outside in the cold. He said the group of 211 undocumented immigrants included some families and small children.

Four buses later arrived for people to board and stay warm, he said. "We weren't going to put 200 people on the streets of El Paso on a cold night. We wouldn't do that," Gomez said.
Authorities found housing for the migrants, including at a hotel and a nearby Catholic school, Gomez said.


This is the news I woke up to this morning after 400 refugees were already housed yesterday through a number of local shelters, including Annunciation House, and all are maxed out for the number of beds they have available. The situation here on the border is at a Crisis State. I am constantly left with the question of why?! Why am I safe, why do I have a choice for a life and why am I free to go where I wish without any boundaries??

I was reading this reflection from Pope Francis when he came to the U.S., he reflected on the Holy Family’s arrival in Bethlehem, where they discovered there was no shelter for them. It caused me to to be grateful that Emmanuel is among us, even in the midst of such darkness and for the invitation “to love, to be compassionate, and to live in service of another.”
Pope Francis said, “We can imagine what Joseph must have been thinking… How is it that the Son of God has no home? Why are we homeless, why don’t we have housing?” Saint Joseph’s simple questions echo in the minds of those who serve the poor even today.

“Like Saint Joseph, you may ask: Why do these, our brothers and sisters, have no place to live? Why are these brothers and sisters of ours homeless? These are questions which all of us might well ask,” the Pope said.
Saint Joseph never hesitated to ask questions in the face in injustice and suffering, the Pope said. But what set Saint Joseph apart was his faith in God, which gave him “the power to find light just at the moment when everything seemed dark.”
“Faith sustained him amid the troubles of life,” Francis reflected. “Thanks to faith, Joseph was able to press forward when everything seemed to be holding him back.” In the same way, faith can sustain the poor and give meaning to suffering, the Pope said.
“In the face of unjust and painful situations, faith brings us the light which scatters the darkness. As it did for Joseph, faith makes us open to the quiet presence of God at every moment of our lives, in every person and in every situation. God is present in every one of you, in each one of us.”
“Faith makes us know that God is at our side, that God is in our midst and his presence spurs us to charity. Charity is born of the call of a God who continues to knock on our door, the door of all people, to invite us to love, to compassion, to service of one another.”
On this Christmas eve let us celebrate, “ for today a savior has been born for you who is Christ and Lord. And this will be a sign for you: you will find an infant wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger." And suddenly there was a multitude of the heavenly host with the angel, praising God and saying: "Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests."
Wishing you Christmas peace & hope,
Donna 


Sunday, December 23, 2018

The Visitation by Brother Mickey McGrath

Today's gospel is Mary's visit to Elizabeth. I have witnessed similar deep care and knowing of the holy one within, by the people we meet here at the shelter. How they greet each other and care for each other and each other's children on this journey. Often they come from different countries and may not all speak the same language. 

Today there were so many Mayans from Guatemala and I realized I was listening to an ancient language I had never heard before; some barely speak Spanish.

The common language shared is love of family and a deep love of God and a deep faith in God's providential love. I am so moved by all the refugees in their recognition of how all is gift and of God. 

I took one Guatamalan woman and her family to the bus station today. When I tried explaining the process of changing buses she looked at me with confusion and admitted she didn't understand Spanish well. What she did know well was that she was never alone and that God was with her all along the way in this journey.

Her profession of faith was very moving. She made me wonder about the depth of my faith. What I realize is that I'm where I belong right now and that I have much to learn from all I have been blessed to encounter.

I will be off tomorrow to celebrate Christmas Eve with the community I'm living with. There will be a Mass and a meal and an opportunity to transition from Advent to Christmas. I will spend Christmas with the refugees. At least there is room for them here.

I wish you a Blessed Christmas  and may it be filled with joy and peace,
Donna

Friday, December 21, 2018




Wilderness God: whose Son was a displaced person in Bethlehem, a refugee in Egypt, and had nowhere to lay his head in Galilee. 

Bless all who have nowhere to lay their head today, who find themselves strangers on earth, pilgrims to they know not where, facing rejection, closed doors, suspicion and fear.


Give them companions in their distress, hope in their wandering, and safe lodging at their journey’s end. And make us a people of grace, wisdom and hospitality, who know that our true identity is to be lost, until we find our eternal home in you. Through Christ, our rejected yet risen Lord. 
Amen.

            (From St Martin in the Fields, London)

My ride in to El Paso is about 30 minutes. I go in silence to ready my heart to be available to greet the folks  with love and compassion.


Today is much like the previous days, arriving by 7am, making sure all have breakfast through the hotel. Seeing who needs to go to the bus station or airport and making a plan with the other two volunteers of who will take who and when. I also get to offer some medical support since it seems everyone has a cold or stomach ache, and who wouldn't. How do these sojourners even hold their heads up, given all they've been through? 


Once to the bus station or airport trying to explain next steps with the hope there will be a kind person along the way to guide them. Everything is strange for them, I suppose I am strange too with my limited Spanish and smile. Yet, I hope my heart is with their heart and my desire is with their desire for life. I hope their hope and I dream their dream and I pray, oh I pray, that it will all be okay and they can begin a new. 


Goo be with each traveller, and with all the innocent children.

Thursday, December 20, 2018

 This is my view when I leave the house of the Sisters of Charity on my way to El Paso, about 30 minutes away. It is ruggedly beautiful but imagine yourself carrying your toddler across this terrain for days seeking a safe shelter. 
Yesterday I traveled back and forth to the airport with families and fortunately, Southwest airlines gives me a pass to be able to accompany them to their gate. For all of them it was the first time they've ever been on a plane. Each family gets a bag of some peanut butter and jelly sandwiches a couple pieces of fruit some crackers excetera from the shelter to tide them over till they get to their destinations. The hotel that Annunciation house is renting and I'm serving, doesn't have any clothing so many times, children are in short sleeves and on their way to northern ports where it's cold and snowing. One has to remember that it's in the thirties at night here too. 

You don't see two parents with their children because the father's would be placed in a detention center and send back to their country of origin. They are traveling with nothing but the clothes on their backs with hopes of being welcomed by a family member or friend someplace in the United States. The hopes of making a home and having a life to raise their children just like any parent would. 

All of the adults have to wear ankle bracelets to identify where they are  for immigration. It struck me today when I brought a young mom and her sick baby to the airport that if Mary was living today, she would have to wear an ankle bracelet to ensure she went to Bethlehem and that Joseph would have been detained and deported back to Nazareth.


Mom and daughter I accompanied to the airport.

At the end of the day I return to the community of Sisters of Charity. They have been on the border almost 30 years working with people on the move. What a witness and they are so gracious and welcoming.




As we near the end of Advent, anticipating Emmanuel, God with us being on the border has opened my eyes to the reality of the Holy Family seeking welcome. All the more reason I find I need to be here these days to be a face of welcome and being part of a community that wishes to help.

Know I carry you all in my heart and in each encounter with each person I meet.

La Paz,
Hermana Donna




Tuesday, December 18, 2018



Last night after arriving in El Paso I went to the hospital where one of the sisters, Janet Gildea, was being released after having a brain tumor removed. She is a very courageous woman who is already back at work trying to help people on the border through Facebook and texting 
I'm staying with  her wonderful community of Sisters of  Charity in Anthony, New Mexico where we had a wonderful home-cooked meal at the house last night welcoming Janet back. I felt like I was in my own home, they were so gracious.

I began my day at 5 a.m. to get to El Paso, a half an hour from where I'm staying. At the shelter I am assigned to I meet brother Alphonsas a young Franciscan brother and we both drove asylum seekers to the airport. I accompanied aa young mother and her three little boys from Honduras through security and on to their gate. This is the first time they had ever been in an airport. They were on their way to LaGuardia where they have some family in New York City who will meet them there. As we were walking in the airport a man stopped me and gave the children a bag of candy and thanked me. I think people here are aware of the plight of so many. This little family will spend its first Christmas in New York may they have a blessed one.

Next off to the Greyhound bus station.
Where we helped the folks get tickets to their loved ones around the U.S. everyone was held in a border holding center where they had to sleep on the floor, have one small meal a day and some were held there 8, 12 even 30 days. All have ankle bracelets to ensure they go to their immigration asylum hearings.  Some have no jackets and it was 35 degrees last night. My heart goes out to these mothers and fathers as they try to offer their children a future without violence and poverty. Thank God for all the volunteers from the El Paso community and from communities around the world.

La Paz,
Sr. Donna

Monday, December 17, 2018

I have begun my journey to Annunciation House in El Paso. I take all the love, care and hope of so many who keep the haunting dream of Emmanuel, God with us, alive and powerful despite the un-Godly events at our border against our sisters and brothers seeking asylum. I am taking you with me as a strong message that our hope and our welcome will not be dimmed in the darkness of hate and suspicion.

I also take $2,500 that so many have given to me to say yes to life and hope. Thank you so much for all your generous love and donations.

To be continued, since the plane is about to take off...

La Paz,
Donna

Monday, December 10, 2018


“Christmas is built upon a beautiful and intentional paradox;
that the birth of the homeless should be celebrated in every home.”

                                               ~G.K. Chesterton

Hello All,


This will be an unusual Advent, Christmas and New Year for me. I will be in for El Paso from 12/17/18 until 1/4/19 to volunteer at Annunciation House https://annunciationhouse.org  in El Paso, TX. Here is its mission: In a Gospel spirit of service and solidarity, we accompany the migrant, homeless, and economically vulnerable peoples of the border region through hospitality, advocacy, and education. I am unsure of what exactly I’ll do and whatever is asked, I’ll try my best to do it. I’ll be bringing my hair cutting materials, while wearing my nursing hat and simply be a presence of welcome to our sisters and brothers seeking refuge- who are much like our Holy Family as they fled to Egypt. 

Please keep me in your prayers, and even more, keep these sisters and brothers of ours in your prayer so that they may find a place of welcome and peace.

Much peace to you,
Sr. Donna